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The Anxieties Of A ‘Normal’ Person

People think having anxiety means you should be in a mental institution or heavily medicated. However, there are many people that walk Earth, that have anxiety, and handle their day-to-day lives rather well.

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Posted in Gaming, Introvert, Marriage, Opinion, The Laughing Box, The Real Life, video games

Why You Should Play With Subtitles

My husband, author of Falcon Game Reviews, thought it would be a good idea to have a… hmm… discussion of sorts. He wrote an article about why gamers shouldn’t play with subtitles on. It is filled with pretty screenshots he took when he re-played Mass Effect 3 with a side of humor.

This is my rebuttal.

Read his article and then come back here.

Did you read it? I did. I forgot to butt punch him. I guess I’ll have to make good on that promise…

Why You Should Play Games With Subtitles On

Firstly

Sometimes your spouse will want to show you goofy videos or tell you what is going on in his/her video game while you’re playing yours. Subtitles allow you to pay attention to your spouse and also know what is going on in what you’re doing.

Subtitles Don’t Ruin Screenshots, They Add To Them

Who cares if it ruins your screenshot? The subtitles are good for people who like to screenshot a certain moment. The words allows the audience to see what is going as well as read it. What if Kaidan said something super funny to Garrus while riding up the elevator on the Citadel? You can’t capture that with an image, unless you have the subtitles on.

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I took this screenshot because I thought the saying was hilarious… I mean, c’mon guys, what do you see? (Shelby: Nice screenshot notification in the top-left, noob)

Without subtitles in this picture you would see the guy about to chop off my head and Alduin approaching. Boring. The subtitles add context and content. See? Good for screenshots.

And those comments to his super-duper-awesome-Mass Effect 3-gallery, they’re just kissing his butt. Butt kissers. I should play ME3 now WITH subtitles and do the same thing.

They Don’t Distract From The Game (Husbands Do That)

They distract you from the game? No. You know what distracts me from the game? A spouse that watches those Monster Factory YouTube videos and laughs crazily and then pauses it and makes me watch them with him while I am playing my game. I have been playing ReCore lately (I really need to finish that) and it has some hairy situations it it. During several moments of I-am-near-death the husband will be like, “Hey, check this out.” NOT RIGHT NOW CAN’T YOU SEE I AM ABOUT TO DIE????!!!! And then I die and he feels bad (Shelby: I never felt bad). I can’t tell you how he has survived for this long.

Okay, anyway. They don’t distract you from the game, they should assist you in becoming more versed in what is happening. Sometimes voice actors talk funny or use weird accents that make it difficult to understand them, thus ruining the experience because you don’t know what the heck is goin’ on! 

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Thank you for adding that context, Ralof. Otherwise, I may not have found that out. 

You Read Things You Should Understand (You Don’t Know Me)

How do you know I don’t speak Czech? (Shelby: I will quiz you later then) You don’t know my life. Maybe I am like James Bond and just somehow can speak like ten different languages. Beside, even if I don’t speak Czech (not saying I don’t) then the subtitles help me know what that douchepants said behind my back and now I have a good reason to punch him in the face.

Right Or Wrong?

Finally, Shelby is wrong (Shelby: Pfft). Or I don’t know, who cares? Get off my back about my subtitles!

The Comments

Here are some comments made on his post by some fine people:

iplayed the game said,

I keep them on for dialogue in gameplay moments. When the background noise is loud, I sometimes can’t hear what’s being said so I have them on to glance down and pick up key words (driving in open world games, shooting in FPS games) to avoid missing something important. You point about body language in cutscenes is interesting though.

I bet he is talking about kids, or his spouse…

Mr Panda said,

I play with them on, and if there’s an option to enlarge them, I do that too. Subtitles help me because I usually need more than just audio cues to understand what people are saying, especially if they’re using in-game lingo or have an accent. Sometimes, I play with the sound off too, out of necessity, so they work great when they’re options. I don’t think you’re wrong in not using subtitles while you play, but others should play games how they want and with what works for them.

 

Mr Panda is right to play with them on. Here’s to you, Mr Panda.

James Dixon said,

I tend to play with subtitles too – all other things being equal. A lot of that’s because I’ve become weirdly addicted to subtitles in general – all TV programmes here have Portuguese subtitles on them – and whilst I’ll happily ignore them 90% of the time, it’s great if you do miss something, because you can quickly glance down and get a second chance.

In games, it’s a trade off I think. Sometimes you’ll maybe miss a visual clue, or badly done subtitles might spoil something if they’re running a bit ahead – but they’re a massive bonus if the game’s loud, or if you’ve not fiddled with sound settings properly. There was one bit in the last CoD, for example, where I couldn’t hear what I was being told to do, and I’d pressed every combination of buttons in hopes of stumbling across it accidentally. After dying a bajillion times, I just turned on the subtitles and got it done first time.

What does really wind me up though, is when the subtitles aren’t exactly the same as the dialogue, but that’s probably a different discussion…… 😉

Did he know he was going to help fuel my argument by allowing comments on his post? Ah, no matter.

I can’t share with you all of the comments made on his post, because he has so many stinken comments, but I will say that there were some agreeing and, as you can tell from above, some that disagreed. Some were a mixture of yes and no.

So, who is right or wrong? (Shelby: I am right) Is there a right or wrong? (Shelby: Yes, you are) What do you think about playing with subtitles on/off? 

Thanks for reading! Happy Valentine’s Day!

 

 

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The Dragons And The Dungeons

Or is it Dungeons and Dragons?

I know this topic did not make it to my prior list, but I don’t feel like writing about those things and I need to keep up with my promise that I already broke. Don’t get mad, I get distracted easily.

Now, wanna talk about some nerdy stuff? Me too.

I figure a post like this is welcome amidst all the political hate that is showing up all over social media. That’s the last you’ll hear about anything political from me until at least next month. Eh, wait…

Anyway, Dragons and Dungeons.

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I really do love this game…

It has been well over a year from the moment that I first stepped foot into my first session/campaign of D&D. It has been over a year since we decided to form a group and really put our nerd hats on.

My husband touched on the touchy subject not too long ago, you can read it here, on our unfortunate circumstances that have befallen our group.

Let me be honest, sometimes I am not the easiest person to get along with. Now, that’s not to say that I am incapable of getting along with people, I just have loud opinions that people don’t like to hear. I am what you call a devil’s advocate and from what I understand, no one likes that person. Oh well, go cry in the corner.

So, our group has taken a turn for the worse. I saw it coming from a mile away, but it seems that others are a little surprised by its sudden decrease in fun-ness (not a word). I must admit that the decrease in the motivation I have to go every Sunday has been worsening bit-by-bit.

By saying that the group has taken a turn for the worse, what I mean is that we don’t get alondownload-4g anymore; if we ever really did. Our group consists of six people and the DM, which is a fairly large group of beginners. Three of the members have known each other for a long time (two are engaged, the other was a roommate of theirs) and so often it seems like whatever they want to do outweighs whatever the husband and I want to do. That’s only one of the issues. The roommate and I don’t get along the most out of the seven people who take up space in the small room that we play in. The issues comprise of things he has done and his inability to be an actual good teammate.

I digress.

The main point is that a group that has been established for well over a year is deteriorating. You know all the stuff people say about relationships? Those apply to large groups as well. In the second week of my communication class that I mentioned before, we learned about group development. What I learned changed the way I see our weekly D&D group, so much so that it may not continue to be a group because we are lacking one vital piece of group development.

Allow me to explain what the stages are. 1) Forming (that’s where ya’ll meet and exchange names that you’ll forget in .25 seconds), 2) Storming (that’s where a lot of the conflict happens. Stuff like telling someone you think their idea is rubbish), 3) Norming (this is where the group is actually putting aside the conflict and getting down to business), 4) Performing (this is where the group actually completes their goal).

The alternative is what is called Group Think. It strays away from any type of conflict and takes the easiest path to get to the finished product. Basically, Group Think is for chickens with thin skin (unless it is baked chicken skin that is covered in garlic, then that is pretty tasty… I mean, what?).

Why did I just tell you something I learned in college? Because, we are a group and there is something we are missing.

We never stormed. We have never figured out how to handle conflict within our group, we do not handle the idea that someone else has a different opinion than our own. Yikes.

And this is why I don’t think I can continue. Not that I am incapable of forming a group and being part of a group, but because we can’t have conflict and resolve it. I am the devil’s advocate, remember? That means I am conflict 85% of the time. How can you have someone like me in your group without knowing how to solve conflict?

I’m not giving up, I am getting rid of something that adds an immeasurable amount of stress to my already stressed life.

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You’re right Heart, it’s time.

What do you think? Am I being unreasonable? Do you agree with me? I’ll listen… Maybe.

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Falling Off The Face Of The Earth

Have you ever gone into a room, looked around and wondered why you were in there? I mean, you had to have been looking for something, right? And yet, you have no idea what you were looking for.

This same concept can be added to why I haven’t made a post since November when I wrote about the Skyrim: Special Edition. I have meant to write a post here and there, maybe something goofy or silly or serious, but I never made it to the laptop to start writing. On the other hand, the husband, Falcon Reviews, has been doing a fabulous job of writing and keeping his blog up-to-date, and I’m the writer.

Unfortunately, the last time I made a post was about a week or two before finals began. I had two term papers to write, two normal-ish tests, and two ginormous tests that sucked out my brains and possibly my soul. I became nothing. So it should come to no surprise that I did not have it in me to write during Christmas break, or even last week when I had to spread my wings and crawl out of my introverted shell, again. Le sigh.

I have some posts that I am eagerly working on, and by working on I mean they’re in my head. I want to have a post a week at least if not more than that from here on out. I can’t really call myself a writer or a communications degree major if I’m not communicating with the world around me.

So please, take this an my apology for allowing my recluse side to take over and vanquish any sort of normalism I may have from time to time.

What I am planning to write

  • I got the husband ReCore for Christmas but somehow he ended up dragging me into it and now I have to write a review. Well, I don’t have to, but I’m gonna!
  • I plan to write a post about how women think they should look after they give birth vs. how society makes them feel how they should look
  • My 2017 in the making!
  • A review on Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring vs. the movie adaptation
  • Probably something about books or a book
  • IDK I’ll think of something though

This is tentative and will not be in order.

Stay tuned!